{"id":2260,"date":"2024-09-16T14:57:49","date_gmt":"2024-09-16T14:57:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev-gaystarnewscouk.gmg-staging.link\/?p=2260"},"modified":"2024-09-16T15:43:52","modified_gmt":"2024-09-16T15:43:52","slug":"the-femme-bisexuals-dating-nerd-men-phenomenon-explained","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev-gaystarnewscouk.gmg-staging.link\/index.php\/2024\/09\/16\/the-femme-bisexuals-dating-nerd-men-phenomenon-explained\/","title":{"rendered":"The Femme Bisexuals Dating Nerd Men Phenomenon Explained"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The internet is divided and confused. A white man in a suit has skidded into our lives and we can\u2019t decide if he\u2019s hot or not. Enter The Dare, AKA Harrison Patrick Smith, musician, DJ and producer behind the TikTok viral sound du-jour, <em>Girls<\/em>. You may also know him as the recipient of Charli XCX\u2019s underwear <em>(\u201csend it to The Dare yeah I think he\u2019s with it\u201d<\/em>). He produced <em>Guess <\/em>featuring Billie Eilish and can be seen snogging girls, DJing and driving the tractor in the music video.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Girls<\/em>, like <em>Guess<\/em>, is not a very deep song, which is a large part of its appeal. \u201c<em>They say I&#8217;m too fuckin&#8217; horny\/Wanna put me in a cage\/I&#8217;d probably fuck the hole in the wall\/The guy before made<\/em>\u201d. It\u2019s an inspired and inspiring lyric. The Dare is not a tortured poet, he\u2019s a top shagger!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which is why it\u2019s a bit of a surprise to learn that bro looks like this:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Cv-jcDzuzQj\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Cv-jcDzuzQj\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Cv-jcDzuzQj\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by the dare (@itsthedare)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Cw5oVRNuGml\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Cw5oVRNuGml\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by the dare (@itsthedare)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>At first glance you\u2019re kinda like \u201chuh\u201d but then you look again and you\u2019re like \u201cactually I totally would.\u201d A little bit of you could imagine just thinking you\u2019ll shag him the once but then you get totally obsessed for four to six months even if you never shag again. His face is interesting. He needs a haircut. Who is this pale weedy guy? I must know him! (You also know that in this alternate universe in which he\u2019s not a musician but a random you met at a party, he wouldn\u2019t have any social media, but also would have no strong feelings for or against it).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This shift in affection from the guy that plucks the strings to the man who presses the buttons reflects a wider societal \u201ccool girl\u201d trend: nerds are hot now. These men have risen like cream to the top of the dating pool, and Bisexual femmes are the cats that want to lick that cream. Meow!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@whits_tiks\/video\/7247223266270563627\" data-video-id=\"7247223266270563627\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@whits_tiks\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@whits_tiks?refer=embed\">@whits_tiks<\/a> <p>AM I WRONG??? <a title=\"bitok\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/bitok?refer=embed\">#bitok<\/a> <a title=\"bigirls\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/bigirls?refer=embed\">#bigirls<\/a> <a title=\"lgbtq\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/lgbtq?refer=embed\">#lgbtq<\/a> <a title=\"queertiktok\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/queertiktok?refer=embed\">#queertiktok<\/a> <a title=\"biwifeenergy\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/biwifeenergy?refer=embed\">#biwifeenergy<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Whitney Young\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7247223236642097963?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Whitney Young<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>And not just like, guys who say they\u2019re nerdy because they\u2019ve watched<em> Lord of the Rings<\/em> a few times. I mean proper nerds. Ones that are running out of space to store their Magic The Gathering cards and Warhammer 40K figurines (James Cleverly is excluded from this). They\u2019re gamers but with enormous PC towers, not console controllers. They play <em>Baldur\u2019s Gate III<\/em>, not <em>Call of Duty<\/em>. They <em>might<\/em> be vegetarian, but they\u2019ll never make a big deal out of it \u2013 they\u2019ll just get chips. They\u2019re vitamin D deficient. You wouldn\u2019t call them \u201crugged.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They watch <em>Alt Shift X<\/em> <em>&#8216;House Of The Dragon<\/em>&#8216; deep dives. They never ever police what you wear or who you talk to because despite being a little socially anxious and introverted, they are very self-assured and secure. They\u2019re very good in bed. They listen to <em>The Rest Is History<\/em>. They probably don\u2019t like clubbing \u2013 they\u2019ll come out occasionally \u2013 but generally prefer staying home to read Wikipedia articles about China in the 20th century, \u201chopping on with the boys for a bit\u201d, or watching YouTube videos teaching you how to make Ancient Roman recipes. (He won\u2019t ever make these dishes, he just likes the videos. He likes cooking Korean food). He can identify many species of bird. This is so sexy to me!!!!!!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kennedeeznutz23\/video\/7243115568218262827\" data-video-id=\"7243115568218262827\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@kennedeeznutz23\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@kennedeeznutz23?refer=embed\">@kennedeeznutz23<\/a>  <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c Spider-Man 2099 (Miguel O'Hara) - Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse - Daniel Pemberton\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Spider-Man-2099-Miguel-O'Hara-7239357525691074561?refer=embed\">\u266c Spider-Man 2099 (Miguel O&#8217;Hara) &#8211; Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse &#8211; Daniel Pemberton<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>***DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT SAYING THAT THE DARE IS OR ISN\u2019T ANYTHING LIKE THE MAN I JUST DESCRIBED. I\u2019M JUST SAYING THAT HE DOESN\u2019T FIT A CONVENTIONAL WESTERN BEAUTY STANDARD AND THAT\u2019S FINE BECAUSE NERDY LOOKING MEN ARE POPULAR WITH EVERYONE (BUT ESPECIALLY BISEXUAL FEMMES NOW. IT\u2019S A FINE LINE I KNOW BUT JUST STAY WITH IT.***<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In defence of \u201csexually active band geeks\u201d, they have always existed \u2013 and the sexually active band girls knew what they were capable of. But what\u2019s changed is how they\u2019re perceived by wider society. I\u2019m not just hoping, but expecting, to see a Bisexual model cavorting around with The Dare this autumn in Deux Moi. He\u2019ll be behind the decks somewhere and she\u2019ll be shaking ass with Charli XCX in the front row. He should get over his hatred of Doc Martens though as that\u2019s biphobic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@throwingfitspod\/video\/7260967886653574443\" data-video-id=\"7260967886653574443\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@throwingfitspod\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@throwingfitspod?refer=embed\">@throwingfitspod<\/a> <p>full podcast with @the dare out now on apple + spotify. watch on patreon <a title=\"docmartens\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/docmartens?refer=embed\">#docmartens<\/a> <a title=\"indiemusic\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/indiemusic?refer=embed\">#indiemusic<\/a> <a title=\"indiesleaze\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/indiesleaze?refer=embed\">#indiesleaze<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Throwing Fits\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7260967906345880362?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Throwing Fits<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI don&#8217;t think he&#8217;s fit,\u201d says my friend Jules (also Queer) of The Dare. \u201cBut I would still fuck him. I think with faces like that, there&#8217;s like a sense of intellectuality or something that comes with it. And I&#8217;m just a slut for the unconventional.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Interestingly, Jules was not the only one of my friends who made this assessment when I threw the question \u201cdo you find this man sexy?\u201d to my Instagram followers. My friend Veronica Viper, a very cool dominatrix (also Queer), said: \u201cHe\u2019s not hot, but I would fuck him.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@angel.phoenixx\/video\/7189358110861954310\" data-video-id=\"7189358110861954310\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@angel.phoenixx\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@angel.phoenixx?refer=embed\">@angel.phoenixx<\/a> <p>Am I right or am I right? I know I am\ud83d\ude0c\ud83d\ude18<a title=\"adhd\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/adhd?refer=embed\">#adhd<\/a> <a title=\"adhdbf\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/adhdbf?refer=embed\">#adhdbf<\/a> <a title=\"bisexual\ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\ud83c\udf08\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/bisexual%F0%9F%8F%B3%EF%B8%8F%E2%80%8D%F0%9F%8C%88?refer=embed\">#bisexual\ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\ud83c\udf08<\/a> <a title=\"altgirl\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/altgirl?refer=embed\">#altgirl<\/a> <a title=\"fypage\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/fypage?refer=embed\">#fypage<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - hard ahh audios fr\ud83e\udd1e\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7157616193791200005?refer=embed\">\u266c original sound &#8211; hard ahh audios fr\ud83e\udd1e<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked them both what they thought of the phenomenon of nerd men being sexy to Queer women and femmes (they also both admitted to currently dating nerds &#8211; Veronica\u2019s likes to fly drones and has toy cars, the one dating Jules is a nerdy music producer.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt truly is a phenomenon, like when you know you know,\u201d says Jules. \u201cWhen you&#8217;re Queer, when you&#8217;re Bisexual, when you\u2019re Non-binary, however you identify, you\u2019re trying to unlearn certain conventions and patterns.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CuHfC9EMfmB\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CuHfC9EMfmB\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CuHfC9EMfmB\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by \u22c6 \u2b52 \u272d \u2b52 \u22c6 (@julavoda)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>I ask what drew her to the music producer. \u201cI saw a certain softness and quirkiness that made me curious when he came across my Hinge. I like people who are nerdy about their craft because it allows you to see where their passions and joys are, in a very intimate way. My pisces heart will always be drawn to sensitive souls. And, coincidentally, the conversation is more intellectual and emotionally communicative than with conventionally attractive men in general.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI like Himbo [the name Veronica uses for her boyfriend], because he is a really sweet little guy. He is a friend to children and animals. I think that\u2019s cute and I like that,\u201d the femdom tells me. \u201cI think what we are finding attractive has massively changed. A lot of straight media, and what straight men look at, superheroes and that, are significantly buffer than they were like, five, ten years ago. And there&#8217;s this real focus I think in the straight community, in \u2018being a real man\u2019 and going super alt-right. And it only makes sense to me that women who are part of Queer spaces, <em>if <\/em>they are going to date cis men, are not going to date the cis men who are doing that. Nerd guys, softer guys, are more and more attractive to Bisexual women because the idea of masculinity that is forced down our throat is not necessarily something we identify with.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C7goj68sPJ6\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C7goj68sPJ6\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C7goj68sPJ6\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Veronica (@veronica_viper_)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>Veronica touches on a strong point \u2013 nerd men, or at the very least weedy blokes like The Dare \u2013 are the natural response to Andrew Tate-types being so repellant. Also, The Dare\u2019s suit is better fitted than Andrew Tate&#8217;s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dani, a social media copywriter, is Non-binary, Queer and has a self-described \u201cnerd kink\u201d. Their partner is also Non-binary, however they assure me that the pair of them \u201cfit the brief\u201d of Bi femme + nerd masc.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C-BK1NPIMYC\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C-BK1NPIMYC\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C-BK1NPIMYC\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by dani ran (@scarrie.bradshaw)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cOne of my first dates with my partner, they told me about how they were a dungeon master and they\u2019d created their own Dungeons and Dragons world (with lore). I literally swooned,\u201d they tell me. \u201cAnother time they said they\u2019d reenacted an entire scene from <em>Star Wars<\/em> with their friend.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I ask what attracts them to nerds. \u201cThere\u2019s just something very attractive about someone who has passions and interests, especially ones that are somewhat unconventional. I am also massively put off by traditional masculinity. Men who like football or play <em>Fifa<\/em>\u2026 give me a massive ick.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you\u2019re a Bi femme looking for a hot nerd of your own, try the following pick up spots.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Korean supermarket.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your local Magic The Gathering card shop or Warhammer store (Get a precon deck of cute Bloomburrow animal cards.)&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Back room or technical booth of a Boiler Room set.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Board game cafe.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Swampy marshes and\/or birdwatching centre.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Discord.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Follow the author on Instagram <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/iamhelenthomas\/?hl=en\">here<\/a>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And also an investigation into whether The Dare is actually hot. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2278,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[51,48,112,21,80],"class_list":["post-2260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-community","tag-bisexual","tag-community","tag-femmes","tag-queer","tag-women"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v24.5 (Yoast SEO v24.5) - 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